I guess some things just weren't meant to be. Was tonight solely my fault? Solely his fault? Perhaps nobody's fault. Don't tell me I ain't got no game! For your information, the drink I "bought" for you was paid for by another man. Ha, joke's on you!
Thursday, July 29, 2004
DEFINITELY A RANT...
I've been noticing a trend. It seems like lately, my older male friends have discovered the art of dating the young beauties of 1986. If you do the math correctly, these girls are the newly graduated high school class of 2004. My sister falls under this category, but I've been keeping her away from lecherous guys. You see, I have a lot of issues with newly graduated high schoolers dating a bunch of newly graduated college students! These girls haven't even stepped onto a college campus and they're ALREADY dating guys that have done the bar scene and assimilated to the "frat-life" way of doing things. I don't mean to categorize or make it seem like ALL guys are terrible, but what the f.ck are you doing with girls that still "riTe lYke DiS"??? Even maturity levels are different. Yes, we all know guys mature slower, so maybe high school girls ARE at your maturity level. But let's not be stupid, there's also a sexual maturity level, which let's face it, doesn't always develop as fast for young girls. It's not so much the age difference that bothers me. Hell, I've dated MUCH older guys. But come on, at least wait 'til these girls have moved into a co-ed dorm before you start hitting on them!
I've been noticing a trend. It seems like lately, my older male friends have discovered the art of dating the young beauties of 1986. If you do the math correctly, these girls are the newly graduated high school class of 2004. My sister falls under this category, but I've been keeping her away from lecherous guys. You see, I have a lot of issues with newly graduated high schoolers dating a bunch of newly graduated college students! These girls haven't even stepped onto a college campus and they're ALREADY dating guys that have done the bar scene and assimilated to the "frat-life" way of doing things. I don't mean to categorize or make it seem like ALL guys are terrible, but what the f.ck are you doing with girls that still "riTe lYke DiS"??? Even maturity levels are different. Yes, we all know guys mature slower, so maybe high school girls ARE at your maturity level. But let's not be stupid, there's also a sexual maturity level, which let's face it, doesn't always develop as fast for young girls. It's not so much the age difference that bothers me. Hell, I've dated MUCH older guys. But come on, at least wait 'til these girls have moved into a co-ed dorm before you start hitting on them!
Wednesday, July 28, 2004
SNEAK PEEK INTO THE FUTURE...
Feeling too lazy to back my car out of the garage and drive it, I decided to take my dad's van out for a little joyride and pick up my little brother from his friend's house tonight. Mind you, I have NEVER driven this van before, partly because it is the company van, which means I'm not insured under it. I don't know what compelled me to take the van, or where I found the courage to do so, but I did.
I don't know why I was ever so scared to drive it. Driving that big tank felt like the most natural thing to me. For a fleeting 20 minutes tonight, I felt very much like a soccer mom, driving my brother and his friends around. If this is any indication of what's in my future, I'm not complaining. Rather, I welcome it.
It's funny how much priorities change within a matter of a couple of years. I recall a particular person telling me back in high school that I would make a horrible mother and wife. As much as I tried to block out those hurtful words, it has actually helped to reshape my current priorities. Even the way I measure success is different. To me, success is measured by the number of lives you touch. But, more importantly, it starts with affecting positive change within the people you love the most, and for me that means being the best wife and mother that I can be.
Feeling too lazy to back my car out of the garage and drive it, I decided to take my dad's van out for a little joyride and pick up my little brother from his friend's house tonight. Mind you, I have NEVER driven this van before, partly because it is the company van, which means I'm not insured under it. I don't know what compelled me to take the van, or where I found the courage to do so, but I did.
I don't know why I was ever so scared to drive it. Driving that big tank felt like the most natural thing to me. For a fleeting 20 minutes tonight, I felt very much like a soccer mom, driving my brother and his friends around. If this is any indication of what's in my future, I'm not complaining. Rather, I welcome it.
It's funny how much priorities change within a matter of a couple of years. I recall a particular person telling me back in high school that I would make a horrible mother and wife. As much as I tried to block out those hurtful words, it has actually helped to reshape my current priorities. Even the way I measure success is different. To me, success is measured by the number of lives you touch. But, more importantly, it starts with affecting positive change within the people you love the most, and for me that means being the best wife and mother that I can be.
Tuesday, July 27, 2004
THELMA AND LOUISE...
...AKA Jamie and Gabby, or Gabby and Jamie, whichever way DJ Julio wants to announce our names over the microphone is fine with us. "Reunited and it feels so good, reunited 'cause we understood..." It's a shame we didn't sing this song, since we totally rocked the house at Sapphire. My partner in crime and I have been separated for much too long. Tonight was the long-awaited reunion. I'd like to announce, we're back and better than ever before! Totally fun night, with so much more to come... Welcome back, Gabbo!
...AKA Jamie and Gabby, or Gabby and Jamie, whichever way DJ Julio wants to announce our names over the microphone is fine with us. "Reunited and it feels so good, reunited 'cause we understood..." It's a shame we didn't sing this song, since we totally rocked the house at Sapphire. My partner in crime and I have been separated for much too long. Tonight was the long-awaited reunion. I'd like to announce, we're back and better than ever before! Totally fun night, with so much more to come... Welcome back, Gabbo!
Friday, July 23, 2004
SPORTS, SPORTS AND MORE SPORTS
For as long as I can remember, the Dodgers have always been the underdogs. But I love my boys in blue just as much as my purple and gold Lakers. However, this just may be the year of the Dodgers. Rumor has it that the Dodgers may be involved in the trade for "The Unit," which may dramatically improve their chances for the playoffs. Either way, tonight was an exciting game. Initially down with a 2-1 deficit, they tied it up in the 8th inning against the Padres. Like always, the Dodgers turn on the magic in the 9th. At the bottom of the inning, Adrian Beltre came up big and brought the game to an end, knocking one out of the park. Very exciting! Tomorrow, I will ACTUALLY be at the game. Hope the boys come up big again.
Aside from the baseball game, I also managed to catch, not 1, not 2, but 3 basketball games today. Yes, the infamous Whittier Tournament, better known for putting teams through intense playing schedules. These boys in green won all three games. *yay* As for me, I'm completely "basketball-ed" out. Driving back and forth is exhausting! I was the only "parent" that stuck around for all three games! But wait, it gets better... my brother is playing in 2 tournaments this weekend, which means a whopping 4 games tomorrow! The upside to all this: I have an admirer! The downside: He's WAY too young. Totally R. Kelly-style. It's just my luck; they're either too old or too young. This one reminds me of a particular track star from back in high school. Very cute! Joe, call me when you turn 21.
For as long as I can remember, the Dodgers have always been the underdogs. But I love my boys in blue just as much as my purple and gold Lakers. However, this just may be the year of the Dodgers. Rumor has it that the Dodgers may be involved in the trade for "The Unit," which may dramatically improve their chances for the playoffs. Either way, tonight was an exciting game. Initially down with a 2-1 deficit, they tied it up in the 8th inning against the Padres. Like always, the Dodgers turn on the magic in the 9th. At the bottom of the inning, Adrian Beltre came up big and brought the game to an end, knocking one out of the park. Very exciting! Tomorrow, I will ACTUALLY be at the game. Hope the boys come up big again.
Aside from the baseball game, I also managed to catch, not 1, not 2, but 3 basketball games today. Yes, the infamous Whittier Tournament, better known for putting teams through intense playing schedules. These boys in green won all three games. *yay* As for me, I'm completely "basketball-ed" out. Driving back and forth is exhausting! I was the only "parent" that stuck around for all three games! But wait, it gets better... my brother is playing in 2 tournaments this weekend, which means a whopping 4 games tomorrow! The upside to all this: I have an admirer! The downside: He's WAY too young. Totally R. Kelly-style. It's just my luck; they're either too old or too young. This one reminds me of a particular track star from back in high school. Very cute! Joe, call me when you turn 21.
Wednesday, July 21, 2004
I think I've reached a new low this time. I have these shows that I watch late at night. I consider them to be my secret indulgences. The types of shows that I deem so bad, that they're so good. Yes, those trashy dating shows like Blind Date, Elimidate, and 5th Wheel. Well, add another one to the pile. The newest addition to the malarkey is MTV's Wanna Come In. This is the show where smooth-talking guys play Cyrano de Bergerac to a less-than-handsome Christian, in order to win over Roxanne and hear those three golden words: "Wanna come in?"
Imagine my surprise when I see guys that I have chilled with before ON THE SHOW!!!! Yup, I see my guy acting a fool on the show. I SURE do know how to pick winners. I'm stewing in a pot of regurgitating slime. I think it's time to get out.
But the worse news yet: Vlade Divac is coming back to the Lakers. Thinking about my sister's "Slam Dunk King" donning a purple and gold jersey makes me what to puke. But if this will give Kobe and the Lakers more depth, I can be a team player too. I just won't cheer very loudly for him!
Imagine my surprise when I see guys that I have chilled with before ON THE SHOW!!!! Yup, I see my guy acting a fool on the show. I SURE do know how to pick winners. I'm stewing in a pot of regurgitating slime. I think it's time to get out.
But the worse news yet: Vlade Divac is coming back to the Lakers. Thinking about my sister's "Slam Dunk King" donning a purple and gold jersey makes me what to puke. But if this will give Kobe and the Lakers more depth, I can be a team player too. I just won't cheer very loudly for him!
Monday, July 19, 2004
The slippery slope argument never held up in any high school round of debate, but if ever it were to be used and actualized, it would be now.
I never fully recovered from the first. And since then, I've jumped from pit to pit. I can't differentiate the good from the bad; I just treat them all the same. I've become aloof and flakey. And it's only because that's what has been done to me.
I never fully recovered from the first. And since then, I've jumped from pit to pit. I can't differentiate the good from the bad; I just treat them all the same. I've become aloof and flakey. And it's only because that's what has been done to me.
Friday, July 16, 2004
Thursday, July 15, 2004
"I'M A LAKER AT HEART."
Did you honestly think I wouldn't blog on one of THE most important day in Laker history?! I was glued to FSN as of noon today, anxiously anticipating Kobe's momentous decision. I all about screamed and leaped for joy when the news finally hit... Kobe has re-signed with the Lakers!!! Good thing, cuz I don't know what I would've done if he had gone with the Clippers. All is right in LA again. And I'm not tripping about Shaq leaving... and here's why...
Shaq is overweight and old. He couldn't hack it against Big Ben and Rasheed this past season, and that was with Kobe. I honestly don't see him being able to do it with a youngster like Dwayne Wade or an aging Eddie Jones (though I still love Eddie!). Granted, Shaq is VERY dominant and it definitely is a big loss to the Lakers. The Lakers' roster is currently very small, with an even smaller Brian Grant playing the center.
On the other hand, Kobe is definitely WAY overpaid at $136.4 million over 7 years. I believe that makes him currently THE highest-paid NBA player. Is it really worth it? Maybe. Kobe's barely 25; he's got YEARS ahead of him. And he's nowhere near the peak of his career yet. I think building a team around him will give more flexibility for him to grow as a player. He said in the press conference today that his goal will be to try to make his teammates better, and I truly believe him. Kobe ain't stupid, he knows that there's a lot of pressure and responsibility now put on him to continue to build the Laker legacy. He's gotta be an even more mature player if he wants to take the Lakers to another Final series.
However, all that is long-term. Short-term, Shaq and the Heat might see more success, purely because they are in the East. They're biggest competitors will be the Pistons and maybe the Pacers. The Lakers gotta go toe to toe with the improved Rockets, Spurs, and Timberwolves. (Don't count out the Warriors, either. They picked up *tear* Derek Fisher.) However, give Kobe a couple of years to work out all the kinks. He'll get it together. I AM sad about seeing the Zen Master, Phil Jackson, leave. But who knows, let's give Rudy Tomjanovich a chance. He can't be any worse than Del Harris, right?
Though Kobe is my first love, I gotta show some love to Allie Mac. Thanks for going shopping with me today, with a fan tucked under your arm the whole time!
Did you honestly think I wouldn't blog on one of THE most important day in Laker history?! I was glued to FSN as of noon today, anxiously anticipating Kobe's momentous decision. I all about screamed and leaped for joy when the news finally hit... Kobe has re-signed with the Lakers!!! Good thing, cuz I don't know what I would've done if he had gone with the Clippers. All is right in LA again. And I'm not tripping about Shaq leaving... and here's why...
Shaq is overweight and old. He couldn't hack it against Big Ben and Rasheed this past season, and that was with Kobe. I honestly don't see him being able to do it with a youngster like Dwayne Wade or an aging Eddie Jones (though I still love Eddie!). Granted, Shaq is VERY dominant and it definitely is a big loss to the Lakers. The Lakers' roster is currently very small, with an even smaller Brian Grant playing the center.
On the other hand, Kobe is definitely WAY overpaid at $136.4 million over 7 years. I believe that makes him currently THE highest-paid NBA player. Is it really worth it? Maybe. Kobe's barely 25; he's got YEARS ahead of him. And he's nowhere near the peak of his career yet. I think building a team around him will give more flexibility for him to grow as a player. He said in the press conference today that his goal will be to try to make his teammates better, and I truly believe him. Kobe ain't stupid, he knows that there's a lot of pressure and responsibility now put on him to continue to build the Laker legacy. He's gotta be an even more mature player if he wants to take the Lakers to another Final series.
However, all that is long-term. Short-term, Shaq and the Heat might see more success, purely because they are in the East. They're biggest competitors will be the Pistons and maybe the Pacers. The Lakers gotta go toe to toe with the improved Rockets, Spurs, and Timberwolves. (Don't count out the Warriors, either. They picked up *tear* Derek Fisher.) However, give Kobe a couple of years to work out all the kinks. He'll get it together. I AM sad about seeing the Zen Master, Phil Jackson, leave. But who knows, let's give Rudy Tomjanovich a chance. He can't be any worse than Del Harris, right?
Though Kobe is my first love, I gotta show some love to Allie Mac. Thanks for going shopping with me today, with a fan tucked under your arm the whole time!
Tuesday, July 13, 2004
EVERY ROAD LEADS BACK TO YOU
Even hundreds of miles away, every little thing still reminds me of you. I try to get away from you, but with every step I take forward, I take two steps back. How hard is it to find another guy that also loves the Lakers and Dodgers as much as you do? Apparently VERY!
I miss the way...
...you'd call in the middle of the day just to say "hey."
...we would stay on the phone for hours talking about nothing.
...we'd run into each other at parties.
...you used to think I never paid any attention to you.
...we shared stories about J&S and King Taco.
...you'd get all excited about seeing me.
...you would talk about your mother like a little mama's boy.
...you used to beg me to stay the night.
...you sat about lost and would look to me for answers.
...you would look at me and tell me I'm beautiful.
...you kissed me tenderly on the forehead.
I love that thinking about you brings a smile to my face... but I hate that no matter how wrong you are for me, you're always on my mind.
I'm dating the Russ to my Ross.
Even hundreds of miles away, every little thing still reminds me of you. I try to get away from you, but with every step I take forward, I take two steps back. How hard is it to find another guy that also loves the Lakers and Dodgers as much as you do? Apparently VERY!
I miss the way...
...you'd call in the middle of the day just to say "hey."
...we would stay on the phone for hours talking about nothing.
...we'd run into each other at parties.
...you used to think I never paid any attention to you.
...we shared stories about J&S and King Taco.
...you'd get all excited about seeing me.
...you would talk about your mother like a little mama's boy.
...you used to beg me to stay the night.
...you sat about lost and would look to me for answers.
...you would look at me and tell me I'm beautiful.
...you kissed me tenderly on the forehead.
I love that thinking about you brings a smile to my face... but I hate that no matter how wrong you are for me, you're always on my mind.
I'm dating the Russ to my Ross.
Monday, July 12, 2004
WEDDING OF THE CENTURY
I went to the first wedding of my life last night: Tim and Sally's. What an honor for theirs to be my first. The ceremony was beautiful. But instead of going on and on about how perfectly wonderful their wedding was and how perfectly wonderful their relationship is, I'm going to focus on (surprise surprise) the guests...
I don't know how many Schurrites still read this blog, but it's nice to know that some things never change. The wedding was very much like a Schurr reunion, about half a decade earlier than expected. Speech nerds reunite! Jane and Lisa are still inseparable. Felicia's still chasing after Peter (except now she has her own record deal and fashion line). Delwin and Allison are still together. And I still feel like the little sister that they let tag along. It's nice.
And just for the record, despite my fears of committing social suicide, going to the wedding solo was the best idea ever. I ended up scoring the best date ever.
I went to the first wedding of my life last night: Tim and Sally's. What an honor for theirs to be my first. The ceremony was beautiful. But instead of going on and on about how perfectly wonderful their wedding was and how perfectly wonderful their relationship is, I'm going to focus on (surprise surprise) the guests...
I don't know how many Schurrites still read this blog, but it's nice to know that some things never change. The wedding was very much like a Schurr reunion, about half a decade earlier than expected. Speech nerds reunite! Jane and Lisa are still inseparable. Felicia's still chasing after Peter (except now she has her own record deal and fashion line). Delwin and Allison are still together. And I still feel like the little sister that they let tag along. It's nice.
And just for the record, despite my fears of committing social suicide, going to the wedding solo was the best idea ever. I ended up scoring the best date ever.
Thursday, July 01, 2004
SPIDERMAN II
My favorite superhero has always been Spiderman. I don't know what it is about him, but if you ever asked, I'd say that Spiderman could beat Superman any day. I used to sit for hours and hours reading Spiderman comics and then watch Spiderman, the cartoon. Having just gotten back from watching Spiderman II, I'm so stoked! It was like one intense rollercoaster. Though the dialogue wasn't all that great, the action was superb. Or maybe it's just cuz I don't like Kirsten Dunst as MJ.
My favorite superhero has always been Spiderman. I don't know what it is about him, but if you ever asked, I'd say that Spiderman could beat Superman any day. I used to sit for hours and hours reading Spiderman comics and then watch Spiderman, the cartoon. Having just gotten back from watching Spiderman II, I'm so stoked! It was like one intense rollercoaster. Though the dialogue wasn't all that great, the action was superb. Or maybe it's just cuz I don't like Kirsten Dunst as MJ.
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